<![CDATA[Remote Luxury Dartmoor B&B - Diary]]>Thu, 28 Nov 2024 18:10:24 +0000Weebly<![CDATA[Most Luxurious Accommodation in High Dartmoor]]>Sat, 26 Aug 2023 18:09:49 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/most-luxurious-accommodation-in-high-dartmoorSince the sad closure of Prince Hall Hotel, Wydemeet is now probably the most luxurious accommodation available on high Dartmoor, and the highest rated.

It is always fascinating to read your reviews, to find out what we could do better, and to get a feel of your Wydemeet experience.    

'Management of Expectations' is one of my mantra's, so below is an attempt to give you a sense of what we're all about, as I think we're probably quite unusual.  

If you exclaim "it's just like Granny's house!" as you drive through our ponderous, moss-clad, electric five-bar wooden gate, we take that as a compliment, not an insult.  You have stumbled across the real thing - quintissential, mildly eccentric, English upper class hospitality. Something that most British people will immediately recognise.

You have chosen a comfortable family home, in preference to a 5* hotel.   We don't have teams of gardeners, DIY men and housekeepers, but we always do our very best to make sure that everything works, that everywhere is clean and tidy, and that you have a relaxing and truly memorable stay. Quite a challenge after these endless unseasonal storms!

Straight from our front door, you can take long walks in every direction, with no sign-posts, and often not even a footpath. But you'll be armed with one of my maps, carefully filled in, and explained over an individually cooked breakfast. 

You are welcomed as part of the family, you will sleep in one of our two best bedrooms, and we are always fascinated to learn all about you, and to swap stories, hopefully of increasing hilarity.

I love running the B&B so much that I'd almost (but not quite) do it for nothing!  However, sometimes I might find myself serving 100 breakfasts in a row without a break. So to maintain the joy, and to be sure that what I do never feels like an exhausting chore or simply a job, my only rule is that breakfast is taken at any time after 9.00am.  Hearty early risers are best off going somewhere else - we're here for indulgence,  relaxation and fun, as well as for ensuring that you experience the absolute most of everything that Dartmoor has to offer.

Ive lived here for nearly 30 years, and am familiar with all the best walks, unknown wild swimming places, fishing pools, pubs etc.

We are not a good centre for exploring the West Country by car, so anticipate leaving yours in the drive. But you will need it for supper, as there is only one pub within walking distance, and the better ones are slightly further afield. Expect 'character' over gourmet!

I will make sure that you derive the absolute most from every hour of your stay with us, whether its for two nights, or a week. Chuck your guide book in the bin. Unless you prefer to follow well-trodden tracks, surrounded by other tourists, in which case they will be very useful!




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<![CDATA[High Dartmoor's Most Luxurious Accommodation]]>Mon, 09 May 2022 23:00:00 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/9958000We believe we are now the highest rated, most luxurious accommodation available in central Dartmoor.

We do hope you will come to visit us over the summer.  Our new Mini-Breaks and Mini-Moons mean that you will have the whole of Wydemeet to yourselves for complete privacy - based on the traditional ski chalet model. But hurry - bookings are limited.

Nearly all your meals will be provided, including a delicious four-course, candle-lit dinner in our elegant dining room; and you will have use of the comfortable sitting room, complete with open log fire, the dining room and kitchen throughout your stay.  There will be nobody else here but you, and we will make sure that your every need is catered for.

We can advise on any Dartmoor-based activity that may take your fancy, be it wild swimming, fishing, riding, climbing, E-biking etc

Perfect for honey-mooners, with copious quantities of  champagne on the house!

Prices: £999 for two; £1299 for three: £1499 for four guests.

Very sadly, we are no longer in a position to offer either Riding Holidays, or Stabling for your horse.  Insurance costs, and lack of a 'Plan B' with only two horses available, have made both impossible - boo hoo!  The only private rides on fast horses that we know of, on the entire moor, are with Elaine, of Liberty Trails.  Liberty Trails normally offers only residential holiday packages, but if you email or call Elaine, there's a chance that she might be happy to take you out, on some fantastic local hunter hirelings!]]>
<![CDATA[MiniBreaks in Dartmoor]]>Mon, 20 Sep 2021 09:35:28 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/minibreaks-in-dartmoor
Well we're coming to the end of our summer season now, and what a time it's been!

The combination of our recent liaison with 'Radio H-P'; and a reduction in international travel, has changed things a bit this year, meaning that running Wydemeet has become even more fun than ever! 

The less advertising we do, the nicer the guests we get, and the better their understanding of what we offer.  What we most treasure is when people take a real grasp of life at Wydemeet and immerse themselves in the countryside and our various local pursuits, including arduous walking; riding, fishing, Ebikes, wild swimming etc.

Oddly enough, this summer - around a third of our guests have turned out to be Oxford graduates! Where were the Cambridge ones??!

Minibreaks now seem to be becoming 'the thing' - where, over a couple or more nights, you have a completely private, indulgent experience of Wydemeet, with the whole house to yourselves, are spoiled rotten with vast breakfasts and endless tea and home-made cake, and a gourmet 4-course candle-lit dinner in our elegant dining room. 
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<![CDATA[Hermes Scarf Queen]]>Wed, 30 Dec 2020 14:07:17 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/hermes-scarf-queenPicture
Increasing numbers of people are suffering from mental health problems during these difficult days, and maybe I'm becoming one of them.  I seem to be becoming a bit OCD, if I wasnt already.

I cant bear sitting doing nothing watching 'A Place In The Sun' all day, while my coffers dry up as no one is allowed to come to stay, so I've been turning myself into an entrepreneur, to keep myself vaguely solvent and occupied.

I have graduated from selling designer scarves and sunglasses, as well as Ford Fiestas to people with children learning to drive, to focus on one niche area:  Hermes Scarves (www.hermesscarf.co.uk).

I have surprised myself by my fascination in these glorious works of art, rather proud that probably I, alone, can tell the difference between etriers and an eperon d'or, and can explain to you what mors a jouets are for.  I can also identify how old a racing yacht might be, by its style of rigging.

My next journey will be identifying musical instruments illustrated by Hermes' esteemed coteries of artists and designers, but scarves featuring those seem to be harder to find, and financially a bit out of my reach at the moment!

In case you were interested:
etriers = stirrups
eperon d'or = golden spur
mors a jouets = mouthing bits useful in helping break in young horses



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<![CDATA[Best Dartmoor B&B?]]>Sun, 27 Sep 2020 10:22:46 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/best-dartmoor-bb It all happens at Wydemeet!

A month or two ago we had a couple staying who seemed to spend an awful lot of time hanging around the house with their little dog, It transpired that each of them had their own YouTube Channel, with 1 and 2 million subscribers each; promoting South Korean culture, most particularly its cuisine, around the world. 'Korean Englishman' Josh's most recent post was of him giving global royalty, the four film stars from 'Avengers', a Korean food tasting. A bit like South Korea's answer to Graham Norton!

Checking out his wife's channel soon after they left, I discovered what they'd been up to all that time - making a film of their stay at Wydemeet! Which had been viewed by about 1/2million people! While 'the feel' is not quite what I might want, some of their filming is beautiful! So I put a link to it and popped it onto this website, but on this page as opposed to the front page - I wouldn't want people to get the wrong impression!

So imagine my shock, when I was showing it off to some guests, to discover that Josh's wife, Gabie, who posted the video, has been 'cancelled' by the South Korean government, and all her videos removed! Apparently the pair went back to South Korea and failed to observe quarantine rules, holding a little birthday party for Gabie, filming it, and then posting it to their 2 million followers! How bats can you get?!

Anyhow, the surprising result is below! I do hope her videos get reinstated, although I dont really want to be overrun with Koreans!

And finally, having seen film of their little dog sitting happily on all my carpets, sofas and chairs in every room of the house, I have reached the end of my tether and reluctantly decided to ban dogs in the future. Sadly, I have also given in, and banned official use of the hot tub, as the elfnsafety requirements for commercial hot tubs are so stringent, covid or no covid, that they're impossible for a small, private B&B to comply with. Bummer.
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<![CDATA[Dark-Sky Association - Star Gazing on Dartmoor]]>Mon, 21 Sep 2020 19:56:41 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/dark-sky-association-star-gazing-on-dartmoorI had a couple of guests recently who came because Wydemeet is in a 'Dark Sky' area, and they came specifically to stargaze during  a meteorite storm (unfortunately it was cloudy that night).

Last night I had a couple who went to the wonderful Rugglestone Inn in Widecombe for supper, and were so blown away by the night sky on the way home, that they parked by the side of the road, and simply went and lay on top of a tor, gazing up at the starry skies above.

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<![CDATA[Wild Swimming on Dartmoor]]>Mon, 21 Sep 2020 19:14:36 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/wild-swimming-on-dartmoor
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Wild Swimming on Dartmoor
While I don't really need to market Wydemeet anymore, as we're plenty busy enough already, I'm now finding it rather fun to hone and refine the actual audience we're reaching out to, so that the people who come here particularly appreciate and enjoy the very special, probably unique, things that we have to offer, which in turn makes us enjoy our role even more than ever!

Wydemeet is the perfect retreat for serious walkers, who want to yomp from Wydemeet's back door for several hours, in any old weather, across the bleakest terrain, and don't care that there are no paths nor signposts to speak of.

We are also perfect for wild swimming enthusiasts.  There is a pool that is always being featured in the press and broadcast media.  I can direct you there, but I know of a lot more, several of them less than a 15 minute walk away!

Having lived here for 26 years I'm quite good at recommending different routes suited to our various guests, rather than leaving you going round and round in circles, with 100 other people who've bought the same guide book as yours.

Soon after the easing of Lockdown, when bookings went absolutely completely ballistic; the hot tub let me down for the first time ever, impossible to repair or replace, as the whole world had gone nuts for them.  I thought it only polite to advise everybody who'd booked of the fact.  I was unutterably stressed and saddened that the whole lot cancelled.  Then some rebooked.  Then cancelled again. Each booking I take is personal and takes me ages to organise as I'm so unautomated and unstreamlined. My diary is now three inches deep in tippex for late July and the whole of August.

But my end conclusion is "Good!". This is absolutely and entirely the wrong destination for people who are only interested in hot tubs, and actually to be honest, I'm glad these people didn't come.  Instead we've had the most unbelievably wonderful guests ever - more and more and more simply fantastic people; who entirely 'get' and appreciate the special things that we offer, as is attested in their Airbnb reviews which simply make me melt!
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<![CDATA[scarvesandsunglasses.co.uk goes mad!]]>Tue, 15 Sep 2020 19:29:16 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/scarvesandsunglassescouk-goes-madCrikey - it's all gone bonkers!

So mad, in fact, that I've had a hissy fit and closed out both my B&B rooms for a week.  I am completely exhausted!

Today I celebrated the sale of my first 'new or barely worn' silk designer scarf, through the website I created during Lockdown: scarvesandsunglasses.co.uk.  It's the most absolutely beautiful ethereal thing, called 'Jewel Bugs' by Christian Dior - delivered to lovely Louise of Weymouth, acid-free-tissue-wrapped, in a black gift-box, post and packaged signed-for, in an enormous luxurious black envelope, with my italic silver writing on the front.

Meanwhile I've sold all our Ford Fiestas - even our own, by mistake - and I've delivered them personally to Brighton, West London and Sherborne myself. It's cost me an absolute fortune in trainfares and taxis, as well as time, which I no longer have, post-Lockdown.  My goodness I've learned a lot.  Each sale has been enough to turn my hair white, or make even more of it fall out; but now I have a much better sense of what I'm doing.  And no time to do it in.  My waiting list of 15 will just have to wait until late Autumn.

Which brings me to my Riding Holidays.  Wowee!!! How much did I love having Donna and Steve to stay?! Donna and I rode 20 miles the first day, and 15 miles in the fog on the second.  Both days we met up for lunch with Donna's wonderful husband, Steve, who reignites my faith in the ability of some men to be funny, dry, successful, kind, and emotionally intelligent. Yesterday another caring husband called, wanting to buy a Riding Holiday for his horsey wife's birthday today; so I wrote him a voucher, and now I'm getting some properly designed by my mate Steph's extremely talented son, John.

And finally.... I have had three Teslas' visiting in the last week.  Perhaps Wydemeet is the definition of a Tesla, being high-end and vaguely environmental.  So I thought I'd investigate in getting a charging 'pod' which is proving an interesting journey.  You can currently claim 75% of the fitting cost against the government, I believe, but it will probably still cost me over £300. My main motivation behind this, is to ensure that my guests can visit some far-away remote beauty spot in their smart (eerily silent) car during their stay at Wydemeet, rather than being forced to spend the day at some ghastly vulgar loud commercial resort, just so that they can plug it in.

And finally, after all these years, I have reluctantly decided to say a quiet, but firm, 'non' to dogs.  We all prefer our own children and pets to those of other people, and I have only ever been 'dog tolerant' rather than 'dog friendly'.  But throughout this season I have continued to observe that people's dogs almost always cause them more stress than the happiness they bring by coming on holiday with their bessotted owners.  Its because my guests are usually so nice that they die a million deaths worrying that their precious canines are disturbing other people by whining, or that they are keeping people awake with their insistence on taking their dog out last thing at night and first thing in the morning. 

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<![CDATA[Ode to a Hot Tub]]>Mon, 27 Jul 2020 11:38:40 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/the-story-of-commercial-hot-tubs-summer-2020After the most wonderful Lockdown with the children, and the moor all to ourselves, it's back to work with a bang!

The whole world has gone mad! I am chock-a-block with bookings for August - just about all via Airbnb.

This may be because Airbnb has advertised Wydemeet as having a hot tub.

Well now it hasn't. 

The world of hot tubs since Lockdown has gone even crazier than eBikes and indoor gyms!  For the first time, having chundered happily away for years, through heatwaves, hurricanes and blizzards, without ever being turned off; my hot tub decided first to disgorge itself of all water without permission; and then the heater and a pump died.

"Possibly time for a new tub?" suggested work-besieged Alan, who is struggling to keep up with a sudden 1000% increase in demand, and can no longer get hold of any spare parts. "But do bear in mind that to operate legally, you will need to note your chemical levels twice a day, however heavy the horizontal Dartmoor rain, whether it's been used over the last week or not; you'll need to spend a couple of thousand on a commercial chlorine dispenser, and you'll have to change the water every time a different group gets in."

It turns out that a new tub would be £6000, and it wont arrive til January 2021.

"You can increase your prices by 30% if you offer a hot tub," said the distributor of 'Beachcombers'.

"No I can't," I retorted. "I charge quite enough already, and Wydemeet is for walkers.  Before Covid, nobody seemed to care whether I had a hot tub at all, until demand for them went ballistic over Lockdown.  Most people didn't even know it was there! This is the wrong place for people who want a hot tub more than anything else. And under current legislation it makes no commercial nor practical sense whatsoever for a 2-bed B&B to offer the use of one. So no other B&Bs in Wydemeet's category will legally have one either.

My new heater and pump will take several weeks to arrive, and then I will take a view. 

But in the meantime - it's no hot tub, I'm so sorry.  Boo hoo! How about some secret wild swimming in the River Dart, a few minutes walk away, instead?]]>
<![CDATA[Hunting Vacations in the UK]]>Fri, 06 Mar 2020 16:55:57 GMThttp://wydemeet-dartmoor.com/diary/hunting-vacations-in-the-uk
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Not Fox Hunting in the UK!
Since the Fox Hunting Act of 2004, all the Dartmoor hunts have always acted within the law. They conduct what's called Trail Hunting, or Exempt Hunting. Sometimes it involves an owl; and always a couple of loyal hunt members are out laying trails across the most interesting and spectacular parts of the moor, while everybody else is happily knocking back a port or two at the meet.

It means that there are now more foxes living happily on the moor than ever, and you're bound to see one or two, if you come to Wydemeet to stay for a hunting break.

After my success with Horse & Hound Magazine, I've now been invited to write a feature for www.Foxhuntinglife.com, which is the leading specialist foxhunting website in the States. 

Did you know that there are more than 150 foxhunts in America? They are more English than English, with all the same turnout, including the tweed, the requisite collars and numbers of buttons on their hunt coats etc, the meets, the hunting calls...  And you really wouldn't know that their photos weren't taken over here!

I was chatting to a guest visiting from New Jersey last Tuesday,  and she said there will never be a ban in the States, because hunting and guns are such a part of their culture.  Apparently they hunt coyotes, as well as several different kinds of foxes, but, certainly in the case of my new friend's hunt, not far from New York, their country is much smaller.

They certainly had the day of a lifetime, out in the sunshine with the Dartmoor!

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